You could meet someone that you think you should give a chance to be fair and all, and most of all to shut those people up, I mean those who keep blabbing things like “ you’re too dame picky, you’ll end up alone and sorry for all the chances you wasted “ !!
Ok , I admit I got scared and decided to give it a shot, I compromised, and P.S. I don’t recommend it at all !!
When you think of being fair to people and be worried of stuff like karmic consequences, the possibility of feeling guilty later on or regret what you did or didn’t do … that’s all very good but keep in mind to be firstly fair to yourself, remember not to expect so much from people coz mostly you’ll get none of what you expected.
Don’t get me wrong ; compromise is a fair concept and it’s great when it's applied by both parties, I really believe it’s the essence of any successful relationship. All I’m saying is be very very careful with it, take a look on what you’re compromising OF and FOR. Make sure it's really worthwhile.
And let me assure you all, first impressions are always right and your first opinion of someone is always the true one.
That’s a rule that was always proven right in my life.
but stupidly I - repeatedly - choosed to ignore it for reasons like , " I gotta be fair " , " everyone deserves a chance "and " maybe I'm wrong , I'm not a dame lie detective anyway " !! "
But the truth is that was ALWAYS wrong, and my first conceptions were ALWAYS right ….. And you would think I’d know better by now than to ignore them !!
Anyway; the point is I already tried “ the wrong ones “ coz I failed to find the only right one, coz I really lost hope to do. And I came to believe that I do have to give up a little - or a lot - and be more realistic about it.
And when I did, I wasn’t happy, not even for a minute. All the time I had this feeling that I’m committing a big mistake.
I guess that was because I – deep down – was sure that my first speculation was real and that by ignoring it I’m doing something I’ll regret … which was proven right in the end.
I’m not complaining though, Experience is always good and I admit that I've learnt many new things, discovered new powers that I had no idea I possessed ... fresh new layers, and most of all found out that trusting my intuition can save lots of time, efforts and nerves which will definitely be burnt out in vain if I didn’t.
“ God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one .. so when we finally meet the right people, we should know how to be grateful. "
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