Happily ever after ....

Two of my friends are now officially a couple ..
And I’m just crazily happy for them ..
Through the passing year, I watched both of them and listened to each of them – separately – and I always believed they can survive .. and I am so happy they did ..

They didn’t bend when the wind blew, they stood up and defended their love … and when the storm was over and the sun shone again they were still standing, smiling at each other .. and they earned their happiness ..
I’m so happy for you guys, and so proud of you .. I can’t even tell you how much ..

“ Love does not mean gazing at each other, but looking together in the same direction. “
- Antoine de Saint-Exupery -

The pursuit of Happiness :

What ever happened to us?
Did you guys ever notice that nobody around fights for their dreams anymore? They give up so dame easily on things they are completely sure they want – and need – with all their hearts .. !!
And even though; they just let go on the first turn of the road, to the first obstacle they face ..
And what’s sadder is that those quitters are usually the best to assure you they’re fighters by nature , that they never give up or surrender .. bla, bla, bla ….

Well, for one; that should teach you that actions speak louder than words, and that those who act has no time or will to talk and vice versa ..
But don’t you agree it’s pathetic …?

What would be more worthy of fighting for than a dream you’ve always chased? Why would you give it up - without putting up a real fight - when you finally get it?
Just keep in mind that when you do so, you’ve only got yourself to blame for your weakness and shallowness … and for the dreams you – not only wasted for yourself – but maybe ruined for others as well ….
And that leading the rest of your life afterwards to be simply hollow and miserable is only your own creation ….

" Only dead fish go with the flow. However, you’re not a fish. "
- Jae Yoon -

Time heals all ...

Does time really heal wounds or is that just another cliché?
Well, the truth is scars never actually disappear, but they do get better with time, as days go by they gradually hurt less …. Sure it would still ache every once and a while, but the pain will certainly not be that severe burning it used to feel, it will change form, it will turn to a distant memory that taught you something once.
After all if it weren’t for trials and errors, how would we ever learn anything ?

A Wiseman once said : “ Be thankful for your mistakes; for no matter how bad they hurt, still they've taught you valuable lessons “

If you have a Dream

That's a very nice poem I like to share with you :

Don't wait for some distant day to come,

it may be too late before you've even begun.

Not everyone will agree with all you decide.

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Be true to yourself first and foremost.

The only important thing in life is what you do

with the time you spend here on earth.

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Don't be afraid to follow your desires,

they are not silly nor selfish.

Take the time and do what makes you feel alive.

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Leave your fears and regrets in the past,

for this is where they belong.

Don't cloud today with things that can't be undone.

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You have no more control over yesterday or tomorrow,

than you do the raging of your passions.

Do not quiet these dreams nor quench your desires.

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For if you do, your journey is ended.

You have only today to begin anew and follow your dreams.

For in the end all we have are our memories.

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When the twilight comes to us, let there be,

No excuses, no explanations, no regrets!