The sky is the limit …

Have you ever thought of the numerous possibilities of each decision we make, every step we take, every little choice .. ?
The countless “ what if “s that the future may hold as a result to every move we daily make … how our life could be upside down if we did / didn’t do so and so .. ?
It scares me sometimes .. Actually, most of the time to be honest ....


“ What can be predicted can be controlled “

Yeah, we can minimize the damage that a catastrophe could produce if we expected it upfront. That fact seems a little assuring if you know that you’re smart enough to understand what’s going on around you and see through your acquaintances, and strong enough to stand up for yourself ...
If you are , you can – to a certain degree – be sure that you won’t get hurt much when / if things get off the right track.

But who’s to know if the worst – or the best – is going to occur ? how do you know that what you foresee is the right version of the future ?
Well, that’s when qualities like ; intelligence, experience and intuition come in handy .. think really hard of your each and every choice coz no matter how little it is; it will have an impact on your life .. So you better be careful .... be hesitant – it’s still better than hasty – be as sure as you can be before you actually move ..

I know that it will give you a constant headache – believe me I’m there myself – but if you just think of what might happen if you didn’t watch out is immeasurably worse ..

" Doubt is not a pleasant condition, but certainty is absurd "
- Voltaire -

Be an angel and forgive .. !!

Why the hell should I do that ????

Forgiving someone for a huge mistake doesn’t necessarily make you an angel, in most cases it would simply indicate that you’re a fool who deserves to be hurt allover again.
This is not cruelty people, it’s just that the mistakes we make revile our characters .. So they’re not always “ mistakes “ they’re usually “ patterns of life “ …
In other words; lying, quitting, weakness, negativity …. And so many other flaws; are not to be considered just mistakes that could be forgiven and put behind.
Let it go once and it will repeat over and over again.

And there is also one additional undeniable fact; after a while our old sufferings of / with someone due to their – so called - mistakes don’t seem that bad any more in our minds .. They mix up with the good moments that we lived then. And suddenly we start to feel the longing for those rare nice moments and we're so darned open to forget and forgive !
And “ hope “ that the problems won’t repeat … but they surely will and that’s a fact I hope I’m smart enough to keep in mind.

" The past always looks better than it actually was. It only seems pleasant now because it isn't here anymore "
- Peter Dunne -